Losing

H.E.R.
I Used to Know Her (2019)
Moderate 75 BPM
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Song DNA

Dynamic Range7/10
Sudden Changesmild
Texturelayered
Predictabilitymedium
Vocal Stylesoft vocals
Notes: The song features a smooth blend of soulful melodies and soft vocals that create an intimate atmosphere. The layered instrumentation adds depth while maintaining a gentle flow.

Misophonia Triggers

Mouth Soundsnone
Percussive Clicksmild
Breathing Soundsmild
Repetitive Micro-soundsnone
Recommended for: emotional release meditation relaxation

A soulful ballad that explores themes of love and loss, showcasing H.E.R.'s emotive vocal delivery.

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Moods: emotional, introspective, melancholy

Traditions: R&B

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