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10 songs that feel like Can You Forgive Her?

Matched to Can You Forgive Her? by Pet Shop Boys on how the music actually moves — intensity, dynamic swing, texture, tempo — not by genre tag. Here's what makes each one a match.

Can You Forgive Her?
The song you love
Can You Forgive Her?
Pet Shop Boys
moderate 56/100 intensity 110 BPM
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I Say a Little Prayer — Aretha Franklin moderate 100 BPM

A 98% feel-match — carries the same joyful pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (55/100).

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Alright — Kendrick Lamar moderate 110 BPM

99% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (56/100). Same layered texture.

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Love Don't Cost a Thing — Jennifer Lopez moderate 110 BPM

Keeps the same joyful pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (56/100). Measured 99% alike. Nearly the same tempo, too (110 BPM).

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There's Nothing Holdin' Me Back — Shawn Mendes moderate 110 BPM

Measures 99% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (56/100). Same layered texture.

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Black or White — Michael Jackson moderate 108 BPM

A 99% feel-match — carries the same joyful pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (56/100). Nearly the same tempo, too (108 BPM).

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U Got the Look — Prince moderate 108 BPM

99% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (56/100). Same layered texture.

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Larger Than Life — Backstreet Boys moderate 108 BPM

Keeps the same joyful pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (56/100). Measured 99% alike. Nearly the same tempo, too (108 BPM).

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Modern Love — David Bowie moderate 114 BPM

Measures 99% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (56/100). Same layered texture.

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Christmas Oratorio — Johann Sebastian Bach moderate 120 BPM

A 95% feel-match — carries the same joyful pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (53/100).

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Yeah! — Usher moderate 105 BPM

99% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (55/100). Same layered texture.

…and if you want it calmer

Same feeling, measured gentler — for when Can You Forgive Her? is more than you want right now.

Me in Honey by R.E.M.
Me in Honey — R.E.M. safe 110 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but its dynamic range stays a gentler 6 where the original climbs to 8. Intensity 45/100, down from 56. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Everyday People by Sly and the Family Stone
Everyday People — Sly and the Family Stone safe 104 BPM

Its dynamic range stays a gentler 6 where the original climbs to 8, so it lands at 40/100 — the pull without the edge. Nearly the same tempo, too.

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Sinfonia Concertante for Violin, Viola and Orchestra — Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart safe 120 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while its dynamic range stays a gentler 6 where the original climbs to 8. Reads 31/100. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Mandolin Concerto in C major, RV 425 by Antonio Vivaldi
Mandolin Concerto in C major, RV 425 — Antonio Vivaldi safe 120 BPM

Holds the same feel while its dynamic range stays a gentler 5 where the original climbs to 8. 27/100, versus the original's 56. Nearly the same tempo, too.

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Piano Quintet in A major, D. 667 'Trout' — Franz Schubert safe 120 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but its dynamic range stays a gentler 6 where the original climbs to 8. Intensity 45/100, down from 56. Nearly the same tempo, too.

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Sidewalks of New York — Dan Zanes & Friends safe 100 BPM

Its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 8, so it lands at 18/100 — the pull without the edge. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Happy Xmas (War Is Over) by John Lennon
Happy Xmas (War Is Over) — John Lennon safe 90 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while its dynamic range stays a gentler 6 where the original climbs to 8. Reads 29/100.

Friends Will Be Friends by Queen
Friends Will Be Friends — Queen safe 90 BPM

Holds the same feel while its dynamic range stays a gentler 6 where the original climbs to 8. 38/100, versus the original's 56.

Frequently asked

What songs sound like “Can You Forgive Her?” by Pet Shop Boys?

The closest feel-matches we measure are “I Say a Little Prayer” by Aretha Franklin, “Alright” by Kendrick Lamar, “Love Don't Cost a Thing” by Jennifer Lopez — the top match scores 98% alike. Matching is by how the songs actually move (intensity, dynamic range, texture, tempo, predictability, vocal force), not by genre tag or popularity.

What songs are like “Can You Forgive Her?” but calmer?

“Me in Honey” by R.E.M., “Everyday People” by Sly and the Family Stone, “Sinfonia Concertante for Violin, Viola and Orchestra” by Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart keep a similar feel while measuring gentler — lower dynamic swing, fewer sudden shifts, or a calmer overall level.

How intense is “Can You Forgive Her?”?

It measures 56/100 on our intensity scale, computed from a dynamic range of 8/10, layered texture, mild sudden shifts, and dynamic vocals. Tempo is 110 BPM.

How do you decide which songs are similar?

Every song in our catalog is measured on 8 dimensions — intensity, dynamic range, tempo, sudden changes, texture, predictability, vocal force and fine sound detail. Similarity is the distance between two songs across those measurements, so matches cross genres and eras. Shared mood tags break ties.

By the numbers: how this song compares

Computed from this song’s place among the 19,209 songs we’ve measured.

Where it sits in 19,000 songs

On our 19k-song scale this lands in the middle band — more energetic than 76% of songs, calmer than the other 24%. Its intensity reading of 56/100 comes from a dynamic range of 8/10, layered texture, mild shifts, and dynamic vocals. It shares this stretch of the spectrum with thousands of other tracks, so the finer fingerprint below is what really separates it.

What makes it unusual

What stands out most about this song is a huge quiet-to-loud swing: more extreme on that axis than 80% of everything we've measured. At the far opposite end of the library sit the songs built on near-total stillness — steady volume, no surprises, a slow and unhurried pulse — the kind of track this one is the counterpoint to.

Feels almost identical to

Closest matches by feel across all 19,209 measured songs — not by genre or artist, by how they actually move.

What it’s good for

Sleep2/10
Focus7/10
Workout4/10
Dinner6/10
Party / hype6/10

Scored from this song’s tempo, intensity, dynamics and texture — not crowd votes.

1993 in context

The 260 songs we’ve measured from 1993 average a dynamic range of 6.6/10. At 8/10, this track is louder and more dynamic than its year.

Mixes smoothly with

Within a few BPM and close in feel — they flow without a jarring transition.

The fingerprint

Intensity56
Dynamics78
Tempo39
Surprise25
Density33
Predictability50
Vocal force75
Trigger load0

The 8-dimension measurement behind every rating on this page.

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