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10 songs that feel like Boys Don't Cry

Matched to Boys Don't Cry by The Cure on how the music actually moves — intensity, dynamic swing, texture, tempo — not by genre tag. Here's what makes each one a match.

The song you love
Boys Don't Cry
The Cure
moderate 47/100 intensity 126 BPM
Cemetry Gates — The Smiths moderate 120 BPM

A 99% feel-match — carries the same melancholy pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (46/100). Nearly the same tempo, too (120 BPM).

Cold Rain and Snow — Grateful Dead moderate 120 BPM

99% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (46/100). Same layered texture.

The Best of Everything — Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers moderate 118 BPM

Keeps the same melancholy pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (46/100). Measured 98% alike. Nearly the same tempo, too (118 BPM).

Live and Let Live — Bill Monroe & His Blue Grass Boys safe 118 BPM

Measures 98% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (45/100). Same layered texture.

When You Were Mine — Prince moderate 136 BPM

A 98% feel-match — carries the same energetic pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (47/100).

Ain't That Peculiar — Marvin Gaye moderate 128 BPM

96% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (47/100). Same layered texture.

'Cause I'm a Man — Tame Impala moderate 115 BPM

Keeps the same melancholy pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (46/100). Measured 98% alike.

NYC — Interpol moderate 126 BPM

Measures 99% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (47/100). Same layered texture.

No Children — The Mountain Goats moderate 126 BPM

A 99% feel-match — carries the same melancholy pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (47/100). Nearly the same tempo, too (126 BPM).

Ten Storey Love Song — The Stone Roses moderate 126 BPM

99% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (47/100). Same layered texture.

…and if you want it calmer

Same feeling, measured gentler — for when Boys Don't Cry is more than you want right now.

It's Too Late by Carole King
It's Too Late — Carole King safe 126 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but nothing in it lurches or startles. Intensity 24/100, down from 47. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Oh Daddy by Fleetwood Mac
Oh Daddy — Fleetwood Mac safe 120 BPM

Nothing in it lurches or startles, so it lands at 23/100 — the pull without the edge. Nearly the same tempo, too.

10:15 Saturday Night by The Cure
10:15 Saturday Night — The Cure safe 128 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 6. Reads 20/100. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Silver by Echo & the Bunnymen
Silver — Echo & the Bunnymen safe 120 BPM

Holds the same feel while it stays in our safe band start to finish. 34/100, versus the original's 47. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Dumb — Nirvana safe 110 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 6. Intensity 19/100, down from 47.

Friday I'm In Love by The Cure
Friday I'm In Love — The Cure safe 135 BPM

It stays in our safe band start to finish, so it lands at 34/100 — the pull without the edge. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Girlfriend in a Coma by The Smiths
Girlfriend in a Coma — The Smiths safe 130 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 6. Reads 20/100. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Vicar in a Tutu — The Smiths safe 120 BPM

Holds the same feel while its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 6. 27/100, versus the original's 47. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Frequently asked

What songs sound like “Boys Don't Cry” by The Cure?

The closest feel-matches we measure are “Cemetry Gates” by The Smiths, “Cold Rain and Snow” by Grateful Dead, “The Best of Everything” by Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers — the top match scores 99% alike. Matching is by how the songs actually move (intensity, dynamic range, texture, tempo, predictability, vocal force), not by genre tag or popularity.

What songs are like “Boys Don't Cry” but calmer?

“It's Too Late” by Carole King, “Oh Daddy” by Fleetwood Mac, “10:15 Saturday Night” by The Cure keep a similar feel while measuring gentler — lower dynamic swing, fewer sudden shifts, or a calmer overall level.

How intense is “Boys Don't Cry”?

It measures 47/100 on our intensity scale, computed from a dynamic range of 6/10, layered texture, mild sudden shifts, and dynamic vocals. Tempo is 126 BPM.

How do you decide which songs are similar?

Every song in our catalog is measured on 8 dimensions — intensity, dynamic range, tempo, sudden changes, texture, predictability, vocal force and fine sound detail. Similarity is the distance between two songs across those measurements, so matches cross genres and eras. Shared mood tags break ties.

By the numbers: how this song compares

Computed from this song’s place among the 19,209 songs we’ve measured.

Where it sits in 19,000 songs

On our 19k-song scale this lands in the middle band — more energetic than 49% of songs, calmer than the other 51%. Its intensity reading of 47/100 comes from a dynamic range of 6/10, layered texture, mild shifts, and dynamic vocals. It shares this stretch of the spectrum with thousands of other tracks, so the finer fingerprint below is what really separates it.

What makes it unusual

What stands out most about this song is a fast, driving tempo: more extreme on that axis than 83% of everything we've measured. At the far opposite end of the library sit the songs built on near-total stillness — steady volume, no surprises, a slow and unhurried pulse — the kind of track this one is the counterpoint to.

Feels almost identical to

Closest matches by feel across all 19,209 measured songs — not by genre or artist, by how they actually move.

What it’s good for

Sleep4/10
Focus8/10
Workout6/10
Dinner7/10
Party / hype5/10

Scored from this song’s tempo, intensity, dynamics and texture — not crowd votes.

1979 in context

The 245 songs we’ve measured from 1979 average a dynamic range of 6.4/10. At 6/10, this track is right in line with its year.

Mixes smoothly with

Within a few BPM and close in feel — they flow without a jarring transition.

The fingerprint

Intensity47
Dynamics56
Tempo48
Surprise25
Density33
Predictability0
Vocal force75
Trigger load13

The 8-dimension measurement behind every rating on this page.

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